Why do girls always want a guy whos sweet and likes them for who they are but....?

same reason why a guy will say what he wants in a girl but if she doesnt look decent it all goes out the window. girls have just as much of a right to want a looker as guys do. u have to be physically attracted to ur partner. its not shallow, somebody who u arent attracted to but is great/supportive in all other ways is a friend not a lover. maybe u havent had much luck with girls at ur school so far, but im sure you'll find somebody who is attracted to you and loves ur personality! ur so young, uve got plenty of time and ur sweet personality will pay off eventually:)